Updated: Dec 15, 2019
Sit and listen. There´s nothing to solve.
Unresolvedness - The state of being unresolved or irresolute.
This word came out of my mouth today with a great conversation with Jorim Haarweh. I didn´t even know it existed until I searched for it.
I love this word. It represents the state in which it makes sense for me to lean into as I am with a person that is sharing some struggles, some stress or just venting.
Unresolvedness. I don´t need to resolve anything about that person´s experience. There´s nothing to resolve.
I can be. Just be. As a space. While that person shares her/his expression at that moment, whatever form that takes.
There´s nothing intrinsically wrong with anybody. We get mess up, confused, lost, doubtful, anxious...and then we don´t.
But underneath it all, underneath all those emotions and stories...lies a constant, an okness, a sense of innate well-being.
There´s nothing to solve. As I sit and listen in unresolvedness, I sit and listen in peace, in the space where nothing is ever harmed nor broken.
And when I am in that space in me, I see you. Slowly you come back to that place in you too.